with Lesley Wilson and Addie van der Kooij

Lesley Wilson, a UK BioSpiritual Focusing Regional Coordinator, describes her unique struggle, together with her partner Addie van der Kooij, in learning how to include his severe neck pain from cervical spondylitis as a ment, unconditional felt-sensing relationships with the inner pain underlying the outer pain.

The healing crisis has led Addie to realize that for him willingness to surrender is an ever deepening state of being, and that it has several levels. These have become a cornerstone of Focusing for him.